Have What You Want

Ever want something but it seems like you just can’t have it? This might be something tangible, like making more money. Or it could be intangible, like having more confidence, influence, or being able to speak your truth.

In my coaching, I work with a variety of modalities, including conventional ontological coaching, the Law of Attraction, Human Software Engineering, the Core Dynamics of Common Problems, and the Wavemaker.

Skip the Analysis

With this collection of tools, I take clients far beyond “analyzing” their problems. We quickly get to the real barrier and eliminate it right in our session, so you’re no longer feeling dread or angst about taking action. This leaves you free to get to work right away on what you want.

A System to Get You There … FAST!

There is a common set of dynamics that affects almost every person, which we’ll address right away.

This common set of dynamics includes things like:

• Limiting Self-Expression – where you limit what you say, so that you don’t lose the love, approval, or validation from others; When we eliminate this dynamic, you will discover the power to express yourself, even when other people don’t like it.
• Looking for Yourself Where You’re Not – Ever find yourself longing for something – a romantic partner, money, or someone’s approval? In this dynamic, you find yourself looking for some external evidence to give you the feeling that you’re “OK,” and you forget that you’re OK as you are! When we free you of this dynamic, you’ll feel at home in your own skin.
• Being Judgemental – in this dynamic, you find yourself criticizing other people (often silently), or judging them. If you’re worried about being judged yourself, it can also be a sign that you’re in this dynamic. When we free you of this dynamic, you will sense your deepest connection to others and to yourself
• Trying to Force an Outcome – Free yourself of this dynamic, and you’ll discover how to live and work in “the zone.”
• Manufacturing Interpretations – if you ever find yourself “stuck in a story” of something that’s happened, running the same old events in your head, then you’re in this dynamic. Unfortunately, even being able to see that you’re stuck in a story doesn’t help. When we eliminate this dynamic, you’ll discover who you really are, when you’re free of those old stories.
• Mistaking Need for Love – this dynamic arises when we find ourselves attached to something or someone. It can leave you suffering when someone pulls away from you. When we free you of this dynamic, you’ll find it easy to have love, no matter what is going on with the other person.
• Ignoring Your Intuition – when we work together on this dynamic, we’ll train you to distinguish your intuition (or inner knowing) from your emotion, and from your intellect. You’ll find it easy to make choices that are aligned with your highest good.

When we eliminate the core dynamics, you’ll find yourself able to live from your inner essence and feel happy, comfortable and grounded in all kinds of situations.

A New Way to Process Emotions

If you have repeated emotions, this process will make a difference for you. Mostly, we’ve been taught to either ignore our emotions, or “feel them.” But that doesn’t usually make a difference. If you find yourself feeling the same emotion with no relief, I’ve got a great process for you. We’ll go beyond the emotion and into the sensation that’s in the body. It’s much faster, easier and more comfortable than either “feeling it,” or ignoring it.

Live from Your Inner Essence

We’ll also work together to put you in touch with your inner essence. This is your highest self, the part that’s courageous and wise, and knows how to be self-sufficient and connected to others.

Would you like a new possibility for your life? To see if coaching is for you, contact Ellie.