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Singles Coaching

Ellie Pope

40-50% of marriages end in divorce. Our old model, where we fall in love and get married, isn’t working. Why? Because we get into relationships based on chemistry, and ignore whether our future partner wants a compatible life.

Now, I don’t want to knock chemistry – it’s a critical part of a great relationship. But it can blind you to unsolvable problems, which only rear their heads when the chemistry cools off, and you’ve already committed to each other.

In these coaching sessions, I work from a new model of creating Conscious Relationships.

STOP Settling!

In the first stage, we get clear on what you want in your life, and what kind of relationship will fit. With this established, you stop settling for bad relationships, and become very attractive to great relationships.

Attract Your Heart’s Desire

The second stage is to attract a great partner. We’ll create an action plan to meet singles, and discover if they’re the “wrong” partner, so you can move on quickly.

While you’re doing this, we’ll also develop your core relationship skills, which are critical so your relationship keeps being strong over time. Things like: being present and intimate, resolving conflicts, and allowing yourself to give and receive.

Be the Chooser

A happy relationship can make you happy in all parts of your life. And a miserable relationship can make your whole life miserable. This is NOT an area to compromise! Be the Chooser in your relationships, rather than dating people who aren’t a great fit. Don’t settle for anything but an extraordinary relationship.

Contact me to see what singles coaching can do for you.

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.

Tom Robbins